tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14554279729654111422024-02-19T01:34:41.102-08:00Christian RobinsonHeptitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17107975371423217386noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1455427972965411142.post-11110350991302926322021-09-03T11:20:00.002-07:002021-09-03T11:20:33.349-07:00Countering False Philosophies<p>
Warning, the <a href="https://www.acronymfinder.com/Jesus-Per-Minute-(Christian-music-slang)-(JPM).html">JPM</a>s in this post are high.
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One of the most evil philosophies of this time is the so-called "balance of good and evil" that I have seen some people advocate with complete sincerity. I am not talking about the Biblical concept of not being able to know joy without sorrow, etc. which is absolutely not the same thing; I am talking about the concept that too much good is just as bad as too much evil. This is reflected in the "parallel world" story of popular fiction where there exists a world that has to be the exact opposite of ours for there to be balance. I know (almost) nobody truly believes this, but I do know people who absolutely believe that the concept of Heaven is abominable because it would be "so boring."
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Evil is not to be countenanced and we should always strive for good—to make the world a better place for all people. We <i>can</i> make it a better place and we <i>can</i> do better. Always look within yourself and work to overcome your own flaws, then work to overcome the evils in this world. Be supportive and loving toward others, rather than hateful and judgmental.
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There is no such thing as "too much good" or "too little bad."
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I find it abhorrent when people justify bad things by saying "it is God's will," and equally abhorrent when people take risks with their own lives and justify it by saying, "if it's my time there's nothing I can do about it," with the implied corollary that a person can't bring about their own death when it's not their time. This is not true! God has a plan for us, yes, but we can destroy that plan because we do have free will. We can destroy this plan for others as well, which is why murder is such an abhorrent sin in God's eyes. There is enough risk in this world already without us making foolishly risky choices with our health and our lives.
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It is true that it is God's will that we be tested in mortal life. It is true that the world is not perfect and that is by design, but this is the case so we can overcome, to build ourselves and others up, so we can face God in the end have Him say, "Well done, good and faithful servant; thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy lord." (Matthew 25:23)
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A truly evil philosophy that I have seen Christians espouse is the false version of the Doctrine of Grace. In this version it is seen that we literally can't do anything to save ourselves, and that it is purely the salvation of Christ that saves us no matter what. What makes this so pernicious is that it is <i>so close</i> to the truth that people accept it, and then feel like when they do wrong, it's actually okay as long as they have "accepted Christ as their savior."
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The problem with this is that while we cannot save ourselves, we can certainly turn away from the salvation of Christ in many ways, even if we still believe in Him. Jesus gave us a blueprint of things He expects us to do, and without an active effort to work toward those things we are effectively walking away from His salvation. It is summed well by James 2:26, which says that "faith without works is dead."
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We cannot say we have accepted Christ and His salvation if we are not doing our best to do as he has asked of us; we cannot be perfect no matter how hard we try, but we should always strive to be better.
</p>Heptitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17107975371423217386noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1455427972965411142.post-46436454691905372382021-08-06T13:13:00.002-07:002021-08-06T13:13:44.994-07:00<p>I don't write as often as I would like to, because I don't live a very interesting life and I don't know what people might care about. It's hard to say anything that I haven't already said.</p><p>Plus, my thinker is on the fritz.</p><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9n3-CMnYRiafpzfZe5aUynaMAjgFk5y2iZitYvypJtEOnW0Q40CfN3leXEbxhmvYaESyFvXf_3tFBdtZd-Ks0ANYZ8AMeZQp1aWcvTC7JrJukXzKGtXWv8KwNEDsqV3erx6oxiuWe_xqa/s2048/2021-08-06+13.58.12.jpg" style="clear: left; display: block; float: left; padding: 1em 0px; text-align: center;"><img alt="" border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9n3-CMnYRiafpzfZe5aUynaMAjgFk5y2iZitYvypJtEOnW0Q40CfN3leXEbxhmvYaESyFvXf_3tFBdtZd-Ks0ANYZ8AMeZQp1aWcvTC7JrJukXzKGtXWv8KwNEDsqV3erx6oxiuWe_xqa/s320/2021-08-06+13.58.12.jpg" /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOcyw58AUP6VbHKgs4Cdd9fzPIuEQj6sZoLhMdkd9SEjDAnxw2YiDMu2xDRTLXO8ahFlBSuiyGao7iP7IcIa6OUuunUrqJ_0J7V8NVikO_0_FTs1-x93E5qcA76tLo3_RVDJw1asU7-yj9/s2048/2021-08-06+13.58.24.jpg" style="display: block; float: left; padding: 1em 0px; text-align: center;"><img alt="" border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjOcyw58AUP6VbHKgs4Cdd9fzPIuEQj6sZoLhMdkd9SEjDAnxw2YiDMu2xDRTLXO8ahFlBSuiyGao7iP7IcIa6OUuunUrqJ_0J7V8NVikO_0_FTs1-x93E5qcA76tLo3_RVDJw1asU7-yj9/s320/2021-08-06+13.58.24.jpg" /></a></div>Heptitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17107975371423217386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1455427972965411142.post-4295361718975499922021-06-07T15:16:00.000-07:002021-06-07T15:16:04.636-07:00Playing with Lego<p>
A couple of months ago I visited my sister and we got to playing with her impressive Lego collection. I built this.
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"Dead time" is the time used to do something repetitive or tedious, such as showering, shaving, washing dishes, doing laundry, and even sleeping has a certain amount of tediousness to it. It's not actually dead time because something useful and important is getting done, but it <i>feels</i> like wasted time and tends to frustrate me.
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Oddly enough, <i>real</i> dead time, like waiting in a line, doesn't bother me much because I can usually spend at least some of that time doing something interesting to me, like playing <a href="https://www.lego.com/en-us/categories/games/apps/lego-tower">Lego Tower</a> or reading a few pages of a novel on my <a href="https://smile.amazon.com/s?k=kindle+e-reader">Kindle e-reader</a>. In fact, I welcome it because it's usually time I can have to myself without feeling guilty.
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I try to make my dead time more interesting by having something to think about, or something to listen to like a podcast, but it's still time I'd rather be doing something else. I often find myself putting off these tasks as long as I can, to the point that I now have to set reminders to encourage me to get them done in a timely manner, which has led to a lot of notifications from my phone. The problem is, after a certain number of notifications I start ignoring them.
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I admire people who can find interest or even joy in doing these daily tasks, and I have a desire to learn to do so myself, but so far I haven't been able to cultivate the right mindset.
</p>Heptitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17107975371423217386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1455427972965411142.post-69970439081257706292020-04-11T13:13:00.002-07:002020-04-11T13:13:47.588-07:00Letting Things Go <article>
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I have a harder time than most, I think, letting posessions go. I have music CD's I never listen to, DVD's I will probably never watch again, and plenty of items in drawers or in storage I have forgotten about that I will probably never use again. And yet, when I look at these items I think, "What if?" What if I <i>could</i> use them again at some point in the future? What if I <i>did</i> need them after I got rid of them? If I give them away, will they be properly taken care of, as I have cared for them?
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I'm not a hoarder by any stretch of the imagination, but I definitely have more stuff (junk?) than I need and it affects me psychologically. I think one reason I have such a hard time letting things go is that I grew up poor, and I am still poor. Anything I own is a potential futurure savings if I can somehow use it again, instead of buying something new. The problem with that is that my posessions start to control me in unhealthy ways. I'm not a "your posessions own you" type of person, but I can understand why some people say that.
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I watched some of <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marie_Kondo">Marie Kondo</a>'s <i><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tidying_Up_with_Marie_Kondo">Tidying Up</a></i> series on Netflix and instead of inspiring me, it gave me anxiety. How can people just let things go like that? What if, on some level, everything I own gives me joy? Of course that's not the case, but this is one of the many ways my anxiety lies to me—it decives me into thinking fear of letting something go is at least in part rooted in "joy" of owning it.
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Fortunately, there are times when I am able to go through a drawer, or a box, or even a closet and look at several items and wonder, "Why am I still keeping this?" I am learning not to hold on to things that don't serve some real purpose for me, and there are times when I can see something and tell myself that even though it still has use, it doesn't have use for <i>me</i>, and that I should donate it to a thrift store or give it away. The trick is to not immediately fill these empty spaces up again.
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I probably shouldn't be as hard on myself about this as I tend to be, because reusing and repurposing things instead of getting rid of them has its own merit, as long as I don't let these potentially reusable items clutter my life and cause mental distress. I'm also limited by my health in how much I can physically do, and often there are other priorities over decluttering.
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Heptitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17107975371423217386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1455427972965411142.post-62168351014811313492020-03-16T12:52:00.001-07:002020-03-16T12:54:24.021-07:00Dealing With Social Isolation <article>
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Social isolation during the COVID-19 outbreak is going to be harder for some than for others. Because of my health problems I've become somewhat used to social isolation, but it was very difficult for me at first. I don't know if I can help others deal with it, but these are some of my ideas.
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If you are religious, pray and meditate, if you aren't, just meditate. <a href="https://nccih.nih.gov/health/meditation/overview.htm">Studies have shown</a> the effectiveness of both in reducing stress and increasing well-being, among other things.
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Keep yourself socially connected virtually, but be very careful to avoid the toxic areas of the internet. Early on when I had to start staying home instead of going out, I spent a lot of time on <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Internet_Relay_Chat">IRC</a> and <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Usenet">Usenet</a>. These are largely supplanted by modern social networking and forums, which can be both good and bad, just like IRC and Usenet was (and is). Find forums for your interests and avoid the comment sections of YouTube and most online articles. Definitely avoid news sites that are sensationalizing current events.
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Focus on the things you can still do, but don't try to do them all at once. Set a schedule, making sure to include both chores and things you enjoy, and pace it out. In the beginning of my social isolation I made the mistake of engaging in marathon reading sessions over days or weeks and that left me feeling empty, more isolated, and frustrated. It was only when I learned to limit my reading sessions to a few hours at most, and make time for other things—especially the important things like daily chores—that I started to feel more balanced. I also found people online that I could talk to about what I had been reading.
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Distraction can be a useful tool if you are experiencing anxiety about the current situation, but it won't eliminate the anxiety, especially if distraction becomes avoidance. It is better to find a way to keep updated without being overwhelmed, and <i>don't</i> excessively research! There is such a thing as excessive vigilance, and it will feed anxiety like nothing else. And remember what I said about avoiding sensationalized news.
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Try to find ways to help others who might also be struggling with isolation. Maybe you can set up a conference Skype call among friends. Maybe you can donate a 1-month subscription to a streaming site to someone who can't afford it. Or donate money directly to non-profit organizations that may be impacted. For example, homeless shelters aren't prepared for this situation. Is there a way you can help them? Leave a comment below with your ideas.
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Make sure you're getting enough sleep, and enough water. Don't excessively exercise or neglect your exercise routine.
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Try to be extra patient with each other. Those slightly annoying little habits of others can become major irritants due to extended close proximity, if you let them. Be forgiving. Be apologetic. <i>Be kind.</i>
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Heptitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17107975371423217386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1455427972965411142.post-56800851338064918222020-02-23T14:32:00.000-08:002020-02-23T16:08:25.498-08:00Birthday Party, Sleep Study Update, Migraines and Health Issues <article>
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Recently I went up to Rexburg to spend a day celebrating my close friend <a href="https://nancy-irrelevantmusings.blogspot.com/">Nancy's</a> birthday. She lives with my sister and I got transportation from a mutual friend. We had a lot of fun talking, playing games, playing with Lego, eating a yummy dinner and a wonderful "Thee Genius" birthday cake, and watching <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phineas_and_Ferb"><i>Phineas and Ferb</i></a>—a series I think <i>everyone</i> should see. At one point most of us fell asleep in the comfy chairs and couches in the living room.
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Although I enjoy spending time with friends, I don't get to do it as often as I want to due to poor health and personal responsibilities. One day I want to spend the night or even a long weekend in Rexburg, but right now I can't work out the logistics that would allow me to do that safely. As it is I must bring a <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01CTN024Y/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=heptite-20&camp=1789&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=B01CTN024Y&linkId=cefef5f6cce78ee4784e6383ed343ffd">HEPA filter</a> with me and stay reasonably close to it while it runs. To sleep overnight I'd have to bring my own specially cleaned sheets, and sleep in a room cleaned and prepared for me, bring my own soap for showering—I have to shower daily—and have an emergency plan in place in case my health "crashes" for some unforeseen reason.
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I had to repeat the home sleep study because they didn't get good enough data the first time, but the second time I took an over the counter sleep aid and I slept better. Unfortunately they can't get me into the office for a follow-up appointment until the second week of next month. I hope they have a good idea of what's happening while I sleep and they can do something to help me, because I'm still so exhausted, and stimulants do little to help me.
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I've had a difficult few days with increased pain, difficulty thinking, and the always-present anxiety that gets worse when my other symptoms get bad. Yesterday I believe I had another <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Acephalgic_migraine">silent migraine</a> which forced me to rest most of the day; I get frustrated when I feel like I haven't been at least minimally productive each day, so I have to remind myself that sometimes the best thing I can do is to just try to recover.
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I'm wondering if the cold snap my area has been experiencing has contributed to my health problems. I tend to suffer more when there's more smoke, smog, and general pollution in the air, and there was a <a href="https://www.facebook.com/fremontcountyemergency/posts/2485161238391156">hay fire</a> in the area that spread smoke over Rexburg and, to a lesser degree, Idaho Falls.
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Heptitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17107975371423217386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1455427972965411142.post-46738652796018825732020-02-03T16:05:00.001-08:002020-02-03T16:07:20.189-08:00Cold Hands, Exhaustion, a Sleep Study, and HTML Editing <article>
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For the last six months or so I have been struggling with severe fatigue. It doesn't matter how much I sleep, how often I nap, I'm exhausted and struggle to stay awake and coherent. Thinking things through now takes me significantly longer than it used to, and I struggle to make decisions. This is quite frustrating, even demoralizing, and the fatigue seems to exacerbate my anxiety.
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I've talked to three medical professionals about it, and none of them, as yet, know what the problem is. The first one all but dismissed it. The second one ran some tests and referred me to the third one. The third is a sleep specialist who sent me home with a device that measured my respiration, pulse rate, blood oxygen, and movements.
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Sleeping with equipment strapped to my body was an interesting experience. It wasn't bulky, but it was there and its presence caused me to struggle to sleep most of the night. It was only after I returned the equipment to the sleep lab that they warned me that if they didn't get good data they would have to repeat the test. If they got good data I will learn the results in one to two weeks, at which point I get to schedule a follow-up.
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I really hope they have answers for me and it's treatable, because I'm starting to understand why sleep deprivation is considered by some to be a particularly cruel form of torture, not that I'm anywhere near what people who have gone through that had to deal with.
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I've also been dealing with uncomfortably cold hands for a few years now. I had this problem when I was younger but it mostly went away, unless I went out in the winter or handled cold or freezing items, but now it's a near constant issue, and I'm wondering if it's somehow related to my fatigue and anxiety. As it is I keep my rooms warmer than most people prefer—between 75°F and 77°F—and a friend made me some fingerless gloves to wear to try to help. I've also talked to doctors about this and for the most part they don't know what to think of it. One suggested I might have <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Raynaud_syndrome">Raynaud syndrome</a>, but my symptoms don't really fit that diagnosis.
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I spent some time this week working on my <a href="https://christianrobinson.name/vim/HTML/">HTML editing macros</a> for <a href="https://www.vim.org/">Vim</a>. I hadn't touched them for almost 8 years and it was time to finally add <abbr title="HyperText Markup Language">HTML</abbr> 5 compatibility, fix some issues, and so on. I've probably spent too much time tinkering with this, but it was fun and hopefully it's useful to someone out there.
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</article>Heptitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17107975371423217386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1455427972965411142.post-27186548497172603842020-01-24T14:14:00.000-08:002020-01-24T14:14:27.475-08:00Losing Respect for a Man I Admired <p>
This causes me anger, and sadness: <a href="https://daily.jstor.org/asimovs-empire-asimovs-wall/">Asimov’s Empire, Asimov’s Wall</a>:
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"Over the course of many decades, Asimov groped or engaged in other forms of unwanted touching with countless women, often at conventions, but also privately and in the workplace. Within the science fiction community, this is common knowledge, and whenever I bring it up in a room of older fans, the response is usually a series of nods. The number of such incidents is unknown, but it can be plausibly estimated in the hundreds, and thus may match or exceed the long list of books that Asimov wrote.
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"His admirers looked to him as a model of how to behave, and fandom was complicit for years in his serial misconduct in ways that have never been fully acknowledged."
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At the risk of restating things already said in the above article...
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I have been concerned about the number of sexual assaults and the sexism that still exists today at conventions, and in the science fiction community at large, and to know that one of my previously most personally admired authors is directly responsible for a significant portion of it makes my stomach knot up.
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This doesn't change the fact that Asimov accomplished many things of note, and as the article says, he was a very prolific writer. Nothing can change that, but I will no longer view him with the respect I once had for him. How much <i>more</i> could he have done for science fiction if he had had self-restraint, and treated women as they deserved? How many would-be authors and talents are unknown because of his direct behavior and the example he set?
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As much progress has been made in making fandom more inclusive, and safer for all individuals, there's still so much further to go, and there are still problems that cannot be ignored. A part of me worries every time someone I know attends a convention because of the legacy of men like Asimov and the men that surrounded him that didn't jerk him up short for his behavior. I do not subscribe to the idea that "it was a different time." Of course it was, but that doesn't make it any more okay then than it would be now.
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I don't know if I will be able to read any more of Asimov's work in light of what I have learned today. If I do there will be a big part of my mind preoccupied with this new knowledge, and it will taint the enjoyment that should be my right as a reader.
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Despite this disappointment, if I'm asked whether I would want to know about this kind of behavior from any other authors I admire, the answer is an unequivocal, "Yes!" Ignorance does not help anybody, and if we're going to solve these problems we have to hold bad actors to account for their actions. (Although I do not like what "<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Call-out_culture">call-out culture</a>" has become because I think love, compassion, and teaching are the best tools to help people become better. I also believe in forgiveness, when it becomes appropriate.)
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Heptitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17107975371423217386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1455427972965411142.post-80062792720901968752020-01-21T21:52:00.000-08:002020-01-21T21:53:02.444-08:00The Likeness is Uncanny<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUgLCc0jSOD4tCcC3dGgjxpSytAhOSUyBcLRoN8V6d_jEvuXi0qi2xkUhWejS3eW-4WN4ZNx2hyphenhyphennTHGEieT4j7CqVYMenqlOHbsRnfcg5nJUWHjg_oRfaUy9AekuHKgb4AQl_j1bIEyP07/s1600/chrisnude.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUgLCc0jSOD4tCcC3dGgjxpSytAhOSUyBcLRoN8V6d_jEvuXi0qi2xkUhWejS3eW-4WN4ZNx2hyphenhyphennTHGEieT4j7CqVYMenqlOHbsRnfcg5nJUWHjg_oRfaUy9AekuHKgb4AQl_j1bIEyP07/s400/chrisnude.jpg" width="300" height="400" data-original-width="1200" data-original-height="1600" /></a></div>Heptitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17107975371423217386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1455427972965411142.post-76838365162923823902020-01-19T16:32:00.001-08:002020-01-20T14:31:14.131-08:00New Washing Machine, Water Leak, and Water Heater <p>
After years of intermittent do-it-yourself repairs of a loyal old washing machine, it finally started leaking from a crack in the bottom of the main tub. Replacement of a the tub would have cost close to $300, which is far too much to pay to repair such an old machine, making it an end-of-life event. It would also have taken at least a week to get a replacement tub, which is too long to be without a machine, especially with health problems that require a painful level of cleanliness.
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Yesterday I went with my sister to <a href="https://www.lowes.com/">Lowe's</a> and <a href="https://www.homedepot.com/">Home Depot</a> to look at new machines. We wanted one with a soak cycle and the ability to select an automatic second rinse at the end of the cycle. We found one that was on sale for something like 30% off that I felt good about, so we decided to buy that one. It's a <a href="https://www.whirlpool.com/">Whirlpool</a> and it will be our first <acronym title="High Efficiency">HE</acronym> machine. We were hoping for a washing machine with a mechanical timer so we could control it with a smart plug without losing the position in the cycle, but the only ones we could find without a digital timer were made by GE, which my family and I consider to be a junk brand. Hopefully this new machine will last us at least 10 years.
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Having done repairs on the old machine, such as replacing the pump, the transmission, and the balance springs—all of which were fun repairs—I hope the new machine is as thoughtfully designed for easy repair.
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The washer will be delivered on Tuesday, and I'm excited but also somewhat nervous about it (because my anxiety makes me second guess myself).
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Also this week I discovered a pinhole water leak in the plumbing coming from the water heater. We called someone in our local <a href="https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/"><acronym title="The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints">LDS</acronym> ward</a> who has some plumbing experience, and he was able to replace the damaged copper pipe fairly quickly. Unfortunately, the leak was not discovered in time to prevent water from infiltrating into the control system of the electric water heater, so now it's tripping its reset button once or twice a day. We have the panels open with a fan blowing inside it to try to dry it out and solve the problem. If that doesn't work, apparently the sensors can be replaced.
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<b><i>Edit:</i></b> We found a bad connection in the water heater, and fixed it. The water heater appears to be fully functional now.
</p>Heptitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17107975371423217386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1455427972965411142.post-30232176750785294752020-01-16T19:57:00.000-08:002020-01-16T19:57:07.694-08:00Self Education and Mentors <p>
Considering the importance of education and since I can't attend college I have tried to pursue knowledge on my own. I have used <a href="https://shop.oreilly.com/">quality texts</a> to learn <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/C_(programming_language)">C</a> (which I don't use) and <a href="http://www.perl.org/">P<small>ERL</small></a> (which I do use), and I am self-taught in <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/HTML"><acronym title="HyperText Markup Language">HTML</acronym></a> and <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cascading_Style_Sheets"><acronym title="Cascading Style Sheets">CSS</acronym></a>. I am not an expert in any of these, but I know enough to do the things I have needed and wanted to do, and I take pleasure in accomplishing these tasks.
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Learning to learn is its own skill, and one I have come to value. Using the internet as a learning tool is invaluable, and over time I have been pleased to see so many resources appear online, such as <a href="https://www.khanacademy.org/">The Khan Academy</a>, <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/">Wikipedia</a>, and <a href="https://www.lifehack.org/articles/money/25-killer-sites-for-free-online-education.html">many others</a>. I can't count the number of times <a href="https://www.youtube.com/">YouTube</a> has been useful in helping me fix an appliance or complete some kind of do-it-yourself task around the house.
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Unfortunately I haven't had the time or the mental energy to devote to learning lately. It's been a struggle for me to retain anything mentally, and I don't know why that is, except that I face so many interruptions in my life which derail my efforts to learn. I want to learn <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Java_(programming_language)">Java</a>, but each time I try I fail to make significant progress. It has been my experience that I struggle to learn something new until I hit a "critical mass" where something clicks in my head and everything makes sense.
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One thing that would help me tremendously would be access to a capable mentor. Someone who understands Java programming and who has the time to teach me until I reach that critical mass level where I can pursue my Java education unassisted. Then they would take the role of guiding me on what Java technologies to study and only help me when I get stuck understanding something.
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Heptitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17107975371423217386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1455427972965411142.post-82500288474868350042020-01-13T20:27:00.000-08:002020-01-13T20:27:03.424-08:00On Support Networks <p>
Having a support system is important for everybody, but it's critical for those who struggle with physical and mental health problems. I probably would not have survived to this point in my life without my support network; my family and friends are very important to me, and I deeply appreciate them.
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I struggle with the need to depend on others, and even after years—decades—I still find myself trying not to lean on others when I should be asking for their support. Relying on others, even when whey they genuinely want me to depend on them, is one of the hardest lessons I've had to learn in my life.
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I try to be supportive of the people in my life, not because I feel like I owe it to them, but because I genuinely care for them and want their happiness. However, sometimes I feel like I take more than I give and I fear people will resent me for it. I don't hold it against anybody if they tell me they need a break from the challenges I present.
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There have been plenty of people who have come into my life and gone not long afterward, and I wonder if my individual struggles and needs drove many or most of them off. I'm sure there have been some people that just couldn't be what I needed—or I couldn't be what they needed—and I regret that.
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There are some sources of support that I need to learn to utilize better, such as the support systems my <a href="https://churchofjesuschrist.org/">church</a> has developed. I also need to learn better how to ask for help, and to recognize what my needs are, especially those that others can help me with.
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There was a time when my support network was a lot weaker than it is now, and it made me appreciate how difficult it can be for those that have little or no support in their lives when they most need it. My heart goes out to those who struggle and suffer.
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To those who have been there for me: Thank you. To those I have failed: I am sorry.
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Heptitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17107975371423217386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1455427972965411142.post-8887388371068095342020-01-12T21:07:00.000-08:002020-01-12T21:07:13.106-08:00"What do you do?" and the Need to be Useful<p>
Since I have physical and mental health limitations I can't be traditionally employed, and I spend most of my time at home. This has challenged my sense of self-worth and left me wondering whether I am a useful, contributing member of society. Being dependent on others is challenging and at times demoralizing.
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Some would say I shouldn't measure my self-worth based on these kinds of things, but it's difficult not to, and I feel like I need to find ways to support myself and contribute to others' well-being.
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One of the ways I have done that is by working on Amazon Mechanical Turk (MTurk). Unfortunately it is very difficult to earn any substantial amount of money on MTurk—I earn well below minimum wage—and it keeps me tied to my computer all day on most days, making it even harder for me to contribute in other ways.
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That said, MTurk is almost the only way I've found to earn money while working around my other daily needs, so in many ways I feel fortunate that MTurk is available to me; it has allowed me to contribute financially the household in minor ways, and enabled me to pay some of my own expenses.
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Unfortunately it can be very uncomfortable to answer the question, "What do you do?" because MTurk is far from prestigious work, and I have to explain the whole system every time someone new asks that question. Sometimes I gloss over the fact that I earn so little, but that's not always possible, especially when I'm asked how much I make on MTurk. I know most people are just interested and curious, but a part of me dreads having to answer these questions, especially in social situations that are already difficult for me due to my social anxiety.
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I have tried contributing to technical support forums online, such as the <a href="https://stackexchange.com/">Stack Exchange</a> network, and I enjoy contributing minor things to open source projects, such as <a href="https://vim.org/">Vim</a>, but there's a limit to what I can contribute, because I am unfortunately not an expert at anything. I also help moderate a few small <a href="https://reddit.com/">subreddits</a>. These are small but sometimes significant accomplishments for me, but they don't lead to rewards beyond the intangible.
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I am trying to learn to notice my successes more, and not dwell on my limitations and failures as much. It's a difficult skill to develop.
</p>Heptitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17107975371423217386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1455427972965411142.post-70363320292192299792020-01-05T15:18:00.000-08:002020-01-05T19:59:39.039-08:00How to be a Better Volunteer<p>
Volunteering can be a touchy subject for me, as I have had bad experiences with volunteers, such as those that wanted to come in "weekend warrior" style and solve a problem in as short a time-frame as possible. In doing so they carried out their self-assigned duties in a shoddy manner that had to be repaired a short time later, or worse, damaged property beyond repair.
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For example, the last time my family moved there was some mishandling of property that caused damage. We could never have managed the move without the help, but with a little care there would have been no damage at all.
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Obviously I think volunteering is important and it can be a significant blessing to those who need it, but volunteers need to be certain they are prepared to do the work that is needed, and not the work they want to do. If not, a volunteer should seriously consider donating their resources in another way.
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Volunteers need to know that they may not always understand why a task needs to be done in a specific way or within a certain time-frame; people in need often have requirements that they understand but have difficulty conveying to others without a significant investment in time and effort. It is good to understand why people have their individual needs, but sometimes it is only necessary to understand that there is a legitimate need, no matter how odd it may seem on its surface.
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For example, due to my extreme sensitivity to dust, pollen, mold, most cleaning products, and so many other things I need regular cleaning at a frequency that seems obsessive, and often to an extent that can appear to be very eccentric, and sometimes those who are helping me don't believe me. It takes a long time to explain the years of effort, trial and error, and help that led to the discoveries of what exactly works and what doesn't.
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I caution any potential volunteer against the idea that, because someone in need rejects a specific offer of help, that they don't actually need or want some kind of help. If ideas are being "shot down" one after another, the proper response is to ask, "What do you need, and how can I provide it?" Then <i>listen</i>. Sometimes the answer will be "I don't know" and sometimes the answer will be complex.
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Before eBooks existed I had a lot of trouble handling books due to my severe sensitivities to papers, dyes, and inks. I wanted access to a textbook and a friend was offering to make the book available to me laminated, or in plastic sleeves, which unfortunately was an idea I had already tried it and it didn't help. After a back-and-forth of several minutes my friend figuratively threw up his hands and said, "Well, if you don't want my help..." Admittedly I could have handled that situation better, because I appreciated his willingness to brainstorm ideas. Thankfully it wasn't long before the first eReaders became available and I was gifted an Amazon Kindle.
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And at the risk of sounding cynical, please never volunteer unless you intend to carry through. Saying you will do something for someone then never showing up leaves that person wondering. Wondering when the help will eventually materialize, whether they should look for help elsewhere, or wondering if they are going to get help at all.
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Heptitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17107975371423217386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1455427972965411142.post-53898300951471698002019-12-30T11:36:00.004-08:002019-12-30T11:39:43.793-08:00<p><a href="https://www.studyfinds.org/clean-air-clean-mind-study-ties-air-pollution-to-depression-suicide-risk/">Clean Air, Clean Mind: Study Ties Air Pollution To Depression, Suicide Risk</a>:</p>
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The study used data from 16 countries in what authors say is the first systematic review and meta-analysis of links between fine particulate matter — small airborne particles including dust and soot — and various mental health problems. By the researchers’ calculations, if the relationship between depression, suicide, and air pollution is causal, then lessening the world-wide average exposure to fine particulate matter from 44 micrograms per meter cubed (μg/m3) to 25 μg/m3 would cause a 15% reduction in the global risk of depression.
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Heptitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17107975371423217386noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1455427972965411142.post-7526822496824211422019-12-25T14:25:00.002-08:002019-12-25T14:26:15.241-08:00Merry Christmas!To all those who celebrate, Merry Christmas! If you don't celebrate, or celebrate something else, Happy Holidays, Happy Hanukkah, Happy Festivus, etc.Heptitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17107975371423217386noreply@blogger.com0